Thursday, 6 September 2012

04/09/12 - 1st Wedding Aniversary

A slightly diff post to all the reviews and make-up posts I'm always doing lol! Today was my first wedding anniversary AND 5 years of being together for me its quite emotional because me n the hubby had alot of family issues which caused us to fight for each other for 4 years. In these 4 years we went through alot which really I cant even put into words I think if I was to put it into words then I would be under estimating what we went through. It took us out emotionally and physically.

We finally wed on 4th September 11 again that was emotional too because twice before our wedding was broken off once even on the day just a few hours before! So this again was like walking on thin ice. It was a bright sunny day to be honest I didn't have the fullest of weddings like most asian's do but however we tried to make the most of it if I'm honest. I did dress up this is some of the pics from the wedding (not like I had many we got married at home and I did my own make-up which didn't look the best due to stress).



So theres some of the pics from my wedding apologies if I dont look happy in some of them I'm guessing you can understand.

Anyway since getting married alot changed for me and alot happened for the first time in 7 years I wasn't working, I had to leave my job, move away from my family (I'd never lived away from home and I am very family orientated my bro's, sis, mum n dad are n were my best friends), set up in a new home, took us 3 trips to move all my stuff, I hate the area and people of where I live and then I FELL PREGNANT within 2-3 weeks of getting married!

So as you can imagine it all got very tough I stayed very ill through my pregnancy at 6 weeks I got told my pregnancy may be a ectopic then eventually I got told I had a cyst =[ which was causing horrendous pain. At 6 months I was losing weight you couldn't even tell I was preg until 8 months because I was so sick I also had gestational diabetes. Finally they induced me 2 weeks early and again I had a very emotional and dramatic 4 days of contractions and labor pains and the rest of it because my poor lil boy wasn't ready to come. I suffered very bad depression through my pregnancy and even after nightmares about death and dying didn't help =[.

Through all this my husband was my rock he looked after me cooked, cleaned, cleaned my sick for the whole 9 months LITERALLY. He used to feed me in the morning before he left for work he would then return at dinner and feed me n then again as soon as he got in from work and so on. Not only did he used to feed me he even had to wait around for me to throw up after he had fed me because whenever I ate I was sick it was like it was a routine. He left football and going to the gym and couch days on the PS3 to look after me  I was practically bedridden. Even through giving birth if I didn't have him or my mum I have no idea what I would have done. So you can imagine what chaotic 5 years I had.

Not all stories have a sad ending I'm living proof =] ....

For my 1st anniversary the hubby treated me to another yes ANOTHER shopping spree (post is yet to come) and bought me this gorgeous ring. Diamonds are truly a girls best friend!




My gorgeous hubby <3

Its been pretty emotinal for me to write this post and alot of stopping and coming back to it hence why I'm posting it late hope you enjoyed it x

26 comments:

  1. Ah honey, glad it all worked out well! Everything what's worth having doesn't come easy. I'm glad it all turned out well in the end and that you and your hubby are happy together! You were a gorgeous bride! And in the end, it doesn't matter where you marry, home or not. I see why this is an emotional anniversary for you. You've been strong going through all this and it's very brave of you to share. I got all goosebumps when I read everything.

    Happy first (and fifth) anniversary and many more to come!! X

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    1. Thank u so much appreciate u reading my post took me alot of emotion to do this one xx

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  2. This post just shows why you are so thankful for your husband and little boy:) Your one of the people in life that deserve a happy ending, Happy anniversary with many more to come <3

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    1. Aww thank u so much I truly am grateful for the best hubby ever n precious lil boy xx

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  3. Happy 1 year anniversary! This post shows the beautiful strength you have within you and how easy some other people got but don't realise that they are blessed. I hope you have many more anniversaries to come! All the best to you and your lil family xoxox

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    1. You are right hun we all take things for granted thats why we have the struggles in life to appreciate them in the end xx

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  4. You looked beautiful on your wedding! Happy anniversary to you both :) x

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  5. Congratulations dear. Your story is so touching. I quit after 4 years. it was so tough and I could not handle it anymore. I am so glad that you were able to get through it and eventually live the happy life you deserve. I am happy to know you.
    Barbara
    www.barbsiesmusings.blogspot.com
    Lagos, Nigeria

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    1. Aww thank u hunny I think the love was too strong we eventually tried to forget each other and go on in life infact we did it many times and then we would eventually come running back to each other xx

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  6. Congrats on your anniversary, I believe in the saying that good things come to those that wait and your strength and courage has proved you were meant for each other, xoxo. P.S I know what you mean about not liking the area you live in unfortunately lol.

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    1. Thank u so much for the lovely comment, the area is so depressing I was suffering depression through pregnancy never mind after birth all I did was sleep and be ill couldn't go for a walk because I hate this area so much. Where are you from hun? x

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    2. Oh I live in north east London now hun, one of my neighbours is nutty too :-(, xoxo.

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    3. Oh no we are both in the same boat, if I'm honest thats one of the reasons y I started blogging so I can stay sane haha xx

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    4. Haha funny hw we strengthen ourself I would hav lost it spendin was my fixture n blogging x

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  7. Congrats on your anniversary, your story was soo touching. I am glad everything has worked out for you, it truly shows how much you care for one another that you waited and fought to be together. xxxx

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    1. Thank u it was such a struggle at the time not knowing if our paths would split or not x

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  8. A belated Happy Anniversary to you both x

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  9. Your story was so touching, it sounds like you both have been through ordeal after ordeal. It's so lovely to see that you both have overcome all of that, and it's very inspiring! You're such a lucky lady to have such a special guy who takes care of you and buys you an amazing ring! I hope you had a fantastic anniversary together :)
    xx

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    1. Aww thank u so much I am really lucky with the way my hubby treats me n looks after me, we had a brill time thank u x

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  10. I just saw this post! Your story is so touching, i am so glad you got through the tough times, you make a lovely couple! Relationships are hard especially because you have to think about not just yourselves but each others families as well when you really want to be together. Im going through this now so its encouraging to hear of a couple who have been through and come out stronger. It is so inspiring. You looked gorgeous on your wedding day hun and it is super late but happy belated anniversaryx

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    1. Thank u for ur lovely message, something of this experience is not easy I wouldn't wish it on anyone and I'd everything in my power to not let this happen to anyone I'm always here if u fancy a chat xx

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  11. I'm sure I havn't a clue of half of what you've gone through but I can relate especially with family issues. I think you are very brave and strong. And just remember how lucky you are to have such a wonderful Husband & son. They are all you will ever need xxxx

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